There is danger in desperately seeking a relationship. Don't feel pressured to get off the singles' market or feel left out because your friends are all hooked with their partners. You would become so desperate to be in a relationship.Your desperation may lead you to give just about any woman a ring or take a ring from or say "yes" to just about any man even when you know fully well that that relationship would be of no good to you and them. You definitely know that relationship is not going anywhere good.
Your desperation may cause you to run to places such as the Church to chase after single men or women who may just be love-camouflages as well, a counterfeit disguised as true love. Your desperation could lead you to be deceived into thinking he or she is real because they sing so well in the choir or usher you into Church with the brightest smile. Who said the devil didn't sing too? He was an angel remember? You may start going to the wrong places to look for a partner.
Here is my advice before desperation and deception runs you over into the wrong matrimony; you need to stop and reflect.
It is better to be alone than to be in a destiny destroying, life damaging relationship. It's better to be single than to end up married to the wrong spouse only for you to be planning to sign off divorce papers a few months after the wedding. Hold on. Let the God within you guide, lead and order your steps.
Get into your closet, be still and listen.
If you sense desperation, learn a skill, get involved in other activities,you never know exactly where you would find her or he would find you.
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VIA FACE BOOK
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