WOOW:HUBBY GOSSIP ABOUT WIFE TO HIS FRIEND BEHIND HER BACK

Wife was going through her husband phone  she saw a chat he had with his friend and she was curious to know ,she never knew she was going to get the shock of her life, she decided to opened the message and behold she was surprise to see her name in every of the conversation between her hubby and his friend.
 At a point she was confused and she felt it was not her name until she got to the part of the conversation which says'' my wife is lazy and not supportive in the house,she nags all the time and i cant believe i married her''.
She said to her self this's  a man we had no issues at all at home and have been supportive to him when we where dating and even engage for 7 years before we got married,he had no serious job when we where dating and i will be the one to hide his back before my parents give him money  to buy things for my mother and siblings, sometimes i will buy things at home and claim he bought them just to cover him up , even when we got married i did some decorations in the house with my money and nobody knew about it not his mother or mine, take care of my son, buy most of his cloth and his food. wife decided to ask hubby guess what he said to her ''am sorry '' .hmmmm will sorry change the fact that he has ruin her name before his friend and his parents, will he go to his friend and tell him that all he said was a lie.
In adding to this my question is if every wife should complain there marital issues to there friends and family do you think marriages won't crash, a  reasonable man is meant to discussed with his wife at home rather than telling his friends or his parents,because most friends gives bad advice and want to destroy your home and be the only happy victim of peaceful marriage.
My question is ......why do men prefer complaining to their friends rather talking to their wife ,men   plss  grow up and respect your wife and marriage. i need answers if you are in her shoes what will you do..

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